[In which parents talk and talk and talk]
What is the one saying that your parents said to you that you absolutely hate?
Ooh, this is a question made for me. My mother still says "Choices, all the time choices" in this tone of voice that makes it quite clear that whatever choice you're making is the wrong damn choice. It drives me up a wall.
On the other hand, my dad always said "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me" which has been the blueprint for my life of INFJ doorslamming. That I do not hate. It's saved me a world of trouble.